
Recently, a relative of mine in Northern Ireland took ill. They are elderly and it is clear that they will need a care package when they return home. I immediately swung into lawyer mode and started to investigate who was going to help and who would pay for my relative’s care: social services or the NHS. But good news, over there there is an organised team of people to help. The hospital social workers work with the doctors and the home help service and the occupational health therapists. Everything is set up for a person coming out of hospital, and it is all properly funded. Imagine that. If you are my age or older, you will recall when funding for elderly care was not an issue, it was a right.
Compare that case with the type of issues that occur in England every day. An elderly person lives alone; they own their own home; they have some savings. They take ill, they are assessed in hospital, you need to go into a care home they are told. You are a Self Funder. So, they are placed into a care home; sometimes, with the help of a friend, sometimes social services arrange this for them.
They sign a contract to pay care home fees, and everyone thinks they have done a good job. You are a Self Funder, the words that accompany a future lack of assistance. You are a Self Funder, it’s not our job to help you further. Sometimes it's not too long before a care home realises that they aren’t being paid properly. Some care homes will actually appoint a core worker who will apply for all relevant state benefits, some don’t see it as any of their business.
Most of the elderly clients that I deal with in this situation either have no relatives left or are estranged from them.
Have you ever noticed the dilapidated house sitting there for years? Once these elderly clients go into care there is often no one to help them. The house just sits there rotting away. Is it even insured, what would happen if there was a flood or a fire?
Here are some examples of the help that clients have not received and my solutions once I was appointed as their attorney under a Lasting Power of Attorney;
What’s particularly galling about that case is that if you are going to sue someone you should make sure that they have received your correspondence first. He could have been dead, as it was he was in a care home and had stopped receiving his post three years previously. Where on earth did this local authority think the man had gone? He is over 90 years of age.
The above list is lamentable. It s a complete failure of society to care for our elderly. No joined up thinking, often a lack of kindness, no one prepared to investigate what is going on. It’s not my job guv. So in the absence of help from society there are solicitors out there like me. It shouldn’t be the case that you need the likes of me to help you. But it’s clear that various government organisations are not helping in England. If you need someone to manage your affairs because you physically can’t cope anymore then contact me.
It might be worth you addressing your mind to this situation now, if you live alone and don’t have relatives to help you. A Lasting Power of Attorney could be drawn up and could be used by a solicitor as and when you need help. It is not a complete takeover of your affairs unless you simply can’t manage at all.
I’m sorry to start the new year off with this article but unless a miracle happens this situation will continue. You need to know how to obtain help and how to access the funding to which you are entitled. You need to live your life free of worry and stress.
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